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A Memorial Garden Designed by Four-Legged Landscapers
Jul
4

A Memorial Garden Designed by Four-Legged Landscapers

When we refreshed the Kai Lending Library this year, we found ourselves redesigning the memorial garden once again for the sixth time.

The first version sat proudly beside the walking path near the lamp post. It was beautiful, visible, and unfortunately located in some of the most valuable canine real estate in the neighborhood - next to the lamppost.

Prime Canine Real Estate - the lamppost

Next, we responded the way humans often do: outcompeting the dogs by making it bigger and their responses remind us that to them size was not the issue.

Bigger must be better to us but the dogs were undeterred.

So we moved the garden away from the lamp post and farther to the left and raised it. Surely a raised garden would signal that this was special but the dogs remained unconvinced. They continued to view it as an excellent place to sniff, investigate, and occasionally contribute their own landscaping improvements.

The elevated garden. Dogs interpret this to be just a higher place to sniff.

Dogs win. We stopped trying to outsmart them and started paying attention to what they were telling us. We moved the garden behind the lamppost where traffic was lighter and sniffs happen less frequently. The lamppost is now theirs to water. The final design was not the one we envisioned. It was better.

The Dog’s version

At Life of Kai, we often talk about being a Kahu — a guardian, steward, and caretaker. For us, stewardship is not about imposing our will on a space, a community, or an animal. It means watching, waiting, learning, and responding to needs as they reveal themselves.

The dogs did not read the design plans. They simply communicated in the language they know best: worn paths, trampled plants, muddy paw prints, and subtle acts of creative destruction. We finally listen.

The memorial garden you see today is the result of that conversation between people and dogs — designed not only by human hands, but also by hundreds of four-legged landscapers who visit the library.

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I Spy a Kai Trinket Trade @ the Kids Library
May
15
to May 22

I Spy a Kai Trinket Trade @ the Kids Library

This spring, the Kids Library hosted its very first Trinket Trade, and for the first time ever, an event at the library that did not revolve around books.

Inspired by the joy and connection that trinket trading creates in communities everywhere, we wanted to bring a little of that magic to our little corner near the bridge. The theme for our first trade, of course, was dogs and cats, with trinkets ranging from tiny treasures to larger surprises. Visitors discovered stickers, temporary tattoos, and animal-themed keepsakes alongside larger items such as dog bandanas, treat pouches, food puzzles, and dog bowls.

During the week-long event, the library welcomed 217 visits, approximately 180 more visits than our typical weekly attendance. The increase suggested that people were eager for opportunities to connect through simple, playful experiences that bring neighbors together. The response exceeded our expectations.

After the trade ended, we shared a community survey to learn what participants thought of the event. Many are already looking forward to our next Trinket Trade planned for November–December 2026.

Starting trinkets small is a good thing.

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Preserving Bones, Saving Pawprints
Mar
18
to Apr 15

Preserving Bones, Saving Pawprints

When the Kai Lending Library first launched in November 2023, we want it to be more than a little free library - it represents a small act of kindness in the community — a place where stories, ideas, and compassion could be shared one book at a time.

After nearly three years of weather, sunshine, and more than 10,000 visitors, it was time for a little maintenance and care.

We want to preserve the original spirit of the library while making it easier to maintain for years to come. The artwork on the roof and door, beautifully hand-painted by our artist friend and board member Natacha, are to remain untouched. These elements are part of the library's history and heart, and preserving those original bones and saving the pawprints was important to us.

We had a detailed mural that brought a great deal of personality to the library. For the refresh, we chose to simplify the artwork to reduce future maintenance needs and make touch-ups easier. The new design is simpler: a dog and BK, both bundled up in cozy sweaters to welcome visitors year-round and the library is now painted in light color to minimize fading and sun damage during our hot summers.

But we are not done. “Be a Kahu” sits squarely above the door.

In Hawaiian culture, kahu means guardian, caretaker, steward, or honored attendant. It reflects a deep and sacred responsibility for something precious — whether that is a beloved animal companion, a cherished place, or a community. A kahu does not simply own or possess. A kahu protects, nurtures, and cares for something entrusted to them.

As visitors stop by the library to borrow a book, leave a book, or simply say hello, we hope those three words serve as a gentle reminder of the role each of us can play in caring for animals, our communities, and one another.

Be a Kahu.

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Coyote Awareness Week At Kids Empathy Library
Mar
16
to Mar 22

Coyote Awareness Week At Kids Empathy Library

On March 12, 2026, the Kai Lending Library celebrated its second year participating in Coyote Awareness Week and expanded the program to the Empathy Library for the very first time.

To help spark curiosity and understanding, we stocked our children's library with books about coyotes and featured Coyote's Wild Home by Lily Kingsolver. Through stories and hands-on activities, we invited children to explore the world through the eyes of one of our most misunderstood wild neighbors.

Young visitors could take home a "Build a Coyote" kit made from cardstock materials, coyote awareness stickers, and a Coyote Awareness card filled with tips and fun facts about living alongside wildlife. These activities were designed to make learning interactive, memorable, and accessible for children of all ages.

Our goal is simple: to help children see coyotes not as creatures to fear, but as shy and intelligent animals that share our community. By fostering understanding and respect, we hope to inspire the next generation to practice coexistence and stewardship of the natural world around them.

After all, kindness and empathy do not stop with our pets—they extend to wildlife as well.

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FEBRUARY FREEZE
Feb
20

FEBRUARY FREEZE

In February 2026, Davis found itself in the grip of an unusually severe cold snap. On February 20, a polar vortex brought freezing temperatures to our community, prompting our local unhoused resource center, Paul’s Place, to send out an urgent SOS for cold-weather supplies.

Life of Kai jumped into action. The question was simple but urgent: how do you gather enough supplies in just a few hours before the freeze sets in?

A little community sleuthing led us to a group of generous church ladies who knit hats for charitable causes and social gatherings. Their quick response helped us secure 40 handmade hats almost immediately. At the same time, Life of Kai assembled and distributed 100 space blankets, 100 hand warmers, jackets, and other cold-weather essentials to help protect some of our community's most vulnerable neighbors during the freeze.

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KAI's SOCKS & GLOVES XMAS DRIVE
Dec
19

KAI's SOCKS & GLOVES XMAS DRIVE

Warm Hears & Warm Feet. This Christmas Day, we are filling hearts and toes with warmth and gratitude. After learning from last year’s coat drive that socks are truly a commodity for people spending long days on the streets in every kind of weather, Life of Kai delivered comfort where it is needed the most:

  • 100+ pairs of socks for both women and men

  • 20 pairs of gloves to help keep hands warm

  • 100 toys donated by Pupcycled Inc.

We hope these warm socks and gloves will help keep folks without a home warmer this holiday season - and we could not have done it without the kindness of our community. Our deepest gratitude to Eva J, Barbara, and Marsha for your generous donations and big hearts. We also want to thank Paul’s Place for helping us distributing the goodies to pets and people.

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KINDNESS DAY
Nov
13
to Nov 30

KINDNESS DAY

World Kindness Day will be our celebrated tradition. It is a day when we not only remind but spread Kindness through our Kindness rocks. Last year, fifty rocks were unleashed into the community. This year, we managed to outdo our last year effort by 4 rocks. We are pleased to see our rocks found their way into people’s lives. This year we also created the pocket Kindness rocks so they can go with you anywhere.

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Halloween
Oct
31

Halloween

Halloween this year gave us the opportunity to debunk the myth that black cats are bad luck. We could not let that happen with our mascot BK. We used this celebration instead to promote the goodness of black cats. Once again we made kindness rocks of black cats and pass them out. Next year we plan to make the debunking even bigger. Stay tuned!

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Dia de Los Muertos
Oct
27
to Jan 2

Dia de Los Muertos

Often misunderstood as a Mexican version of Halloween, this sacred tradition celebrates the opening of Heaven's Gate and the Rainbow Bridge, allowing us to reconnect with our beloved pets who have passed. This "ofrenda" is a community pet altar to provide space for us to come together, share memories and celebrate the lives of our furry friends. It is believed that the presence of marigolds open the Rainbow Bridge. We encouraged the community to write their deceased companion’s name on the provided paper marigold and share them with us. The event was well received. We shared their names here - we hope people and their pets reunited in spirits.

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Rainbow Bridge Memorial Remembrance Day
Aug
28
to Aug 31

Rainbow Bridge Memorial Remembrance Day

We celebrated Rainbow Bridge Memorial for our second year inviting the community to create and share their companion pets memorial rocks with us. The response was overwhelming.

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"KIND" store GRAND OPENING
Jul
15
to Jul 30

"KIND" store GRAND OPENING

We finally have our own store. Our goal is to spread “kindness” through wearables. We carry limited categories of merchandises but plan to have campaigns when applicable. Our last campaign was our Kitty Summer Camp.

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Kitty Kindness Camp
Jun
25
to Aug 13

Kitty Kindness Camp

Our first summer camp! This is a community collaboration between Life of Kai, Community Cat Project and Cat Tales cat clinic. The camp is open to children age 7-11 to learn about cat pets and community cats. We look forward to read stories about cats and to do lots of hands on activities to reinforce what we learn.

One of the favorite activities was to visit the Tabby Lounge where the children get to play with the kitties that are available to be adopted.

Storytelling is a big part of humane education. We read titles with kindness theme that are age appropriate.

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Empathy Kids Library Grand Opening
May
23
to May 25

Empathy Kids Library Grand Opening

The overwhelming success of Kai Kind Library for adults gave us the motivation to create our second Little Library - for kids. We call it Empathy Kids Library. Our goal is to pair Red Rover curated children books on empathy and compassion stocked at the library with our Kind is Cool program. We celebrated the opening with coloring pages and stickers for kids.

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PAWS & CLAUS
Dec
18

PAWS & CLAUS

All dogs and cats love toys whether they have a home or not. Join us for our first Toy Drive on the behalf of Claus. It is going to be at Paul’s Place in Davis on Dec. 18th. Happy Holidays!

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Dia de los Muertos for our beloved companions & Remembrance Spot
Oct
27

Dia de los Muertos for our beloved companions & Remembrance Spot

Celebrate memories of wonderful companion pets. If you are interested, please let us know you are "Going" through this link. We only have space for 30 participants. If you can't join us for the memorial rock painting event, you can still celebrate this day by sharing a photo of your beloved pets at the "Ofrenda."

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Coyote Awareness & Co-existence Initiative
Mar
7
to Mar 27

Coyote Awareness & Co-existence Initiative

  • Life of Kai: Kai Kind Dog Lending Library (map)
  • Google Calendar ICS

The neighborhood coyote She/Her

New Event at the library: Life of Kai’s “Kind is Cool” initiative is our cornerstone humane education program designed to foster compassion, respect, and empathy in children towards all living beings, including animals, whether pets or wildlife. When it comes to animals, domestic or wild, the lessons are particularly poignant, as these creatures often directly interact with human environments, necessitating a harmonious coexistence. We seize the opportunity to support the work of Debbie Cooper, our local naturalist to highlight co-existence with our coyotes with our Lending Library between March 7-27.

We are fortunte to share Davis with several coyotes allowing us to learn about them and foster harmonious relationship with our wildlife that share our daily spaces. A core component of humane education is encouraging co-existence as a pathway to kindness.

We want to dispel myths and address fears about coyotes, highlighting their vital role in maintaining ecological balance and the challenges they encounter. Key lessons on practical coexistence - like securing trash to prevent scavenging, keeping pets safe during coyote active hours such as dawn and dusk, and maintaining a respectful distance - aim not only at safeguarding our community but also at teaching both children and adults about our shared responsibility to live respectfully alongside other species.

We hope to shift perceptions of coyotes from being seen as threats to valued members of the ecosystem with their own needs and rights. We want our humane education benefits the animals and enriches everyone’s lives by fostering a sense of stewardship and connection to the natural world.

These wonderful photographs by Debbie Cooper, our local naturalist, captured the beauty of this small and very friendly neighborhood coyote.


Here is our list of books for children:
  1. Coyote’s Wild Home by Lily and Barbara Kingsolver
  2. Coyote by Tyler Grady (non-fiction about coyotes to teach kids)
  3. At the Edge of the Forest by Jonathan London
  4. Coyote - A Trickster Tale from the American Southwest by Gerald McDermott
  5. Coyote Autumn by Bill Wallace
  6. Hungry Coyote by Cheryl Blackford and Amparo Ortiz
  7. Claire’s Coyote Friends by Christy Burbridge
Here are the books for adults:
  1. Coyote America by Dan Flores
  2. Coyote Conversations by Mark Surls
  3. The Voice of the Coyote by J.Frank Dobie
  4. Coyotes Among Us by Standley D. Gehrt
  5. God’s Dog by Hope Ryden
Coyote Awareness Coloring Book

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